It is critical for today’s business professional to be on an internet networking site like Facebook, LinkedIn and Plaxo.

Keep in mind, that when you are posting your picture on these sites to put your best face forward.

Your Facebook photo can be anything from a casual headshot to a group picture of yourself with others (be sure you get their permission – like I did with Magic Johnson). The picture can have a fun quality to it but be careful. If a potential employer looks you up you don’t want your picture to be career killer.

Your LinkedIn photo should be a color head shot in professional clothing (you do not have to wear a jacket). Always smile in your picture.  Keep it current- 4 years max. Never use a logo for your photo.

If you photographically present yourself like this on Facebook, LinkedIn or other social networking sites, you’ll be truly putting your best face forward!

I have been hoping this issue would go away. I have been biting my tongue this summer each time I see a man in a Speedo swim suit. I’ll make an exception for competitive summers, but otherwise Speedos should not be worn in public by men of any age.

I acknowledge that polls show that some of those interviewed for opinions on Speedos find them hot. But I’ll side with those who find them “cheesy”. I’ll also suggest that good taste obliges all of us to leave something to the imagination.

Particularly in these recessionary times, a Speedo gives the rather sad signal that the wearer cannot afford a little more fabric.

Plus, You Tube can be downright scary when you see videos of some not so in shape bodies encased in body hugging Speedos.

Read more: http://www.tmz.com/2006/07/28/male-stars-feel-the-need-for-speedos/#ixzz0QBxk4NN2

Look for a threesome:

• If you don’t know anyone, start by joining a group of three or more. Two people talking together might be engaged in a private conversation that they don’t want interrupted.

Come prepared with conversation starters:

• Have an opening line or two that will serve as an icebreaker when you approach someone you are meeting for the first time, such as “How did you hear about this event?”

Being open to it is the first step. Get help is step 2.

“Keeping your self-image fresh in this global economy is not only essential for your business, but for your life too-both body and spirit.  This superb book gives excellent advice to help jump-start your engine.”

-Stephen R. Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

Whether you are stuck in a dead-end job, afraid of being laid off, or a victim of cutbacks, executive image consultant Anna Soo Wildermuth will show you how to take that first step toward turning your career around in CHANGE ONE THING: Discover What’s Holding You Back-and Fix It-with the Secrets of a Top Executive Image Consultant (McGraw-Hill; July 31, 2009; $16.95 US). In her 25 years working with executives, celebrities, and Fortune 500 companies, Anna has met many people who are afraid to make a change. The reluctance to shake things is why so many people stay in jobs that they hate or are have trouble finding a new one.

Using self-assessment tests, exercises, and tips from her workshops and private consultations, Anna will help you to overcome the obstacles that are preventing you from achieving true success-one step at a time.  “In this turbulent and highly competitive economic climate, it is more important than ever to put your best image forward,” Anna says.  “I will show you how to pinpoint what’s holding you back, whether it’s your hair, clothes, attitude, or diction, so you can get that job or promotion you want.”  Anna  

CHANGE ONE THING offers advice on transforming:

-Your bad work habits. Are you a gum snapper, two-faced, goof-off, Johnnie or Jane-come-lately, credit hog, or blamer? These are just a few examples of alienating work behavior that can get you tossed.
-Your interview style. If you want to ace that interview, you must dress appropriately for the business you’re in, be prepared, ask the right questions, have the right answers, and follow up.
-Your tired, old wardrobe. Choosing the style of clothing that fits your body shape, height, complexion, and business will give you a leg up at work or at networking events.
-Your social image. Knowing the proper etiquette when eating out, going to business functions, and traveling abroad will help you make the right impression.
-Your communication style. How you conduct yourself in meetings, craft emails, and deal with conflict or complaints, can give you an opportunity to shine. 

“The more committed a person is to change, the greater the rewards,” Anna says.  “Although a lot of my advice is about altering your outward style and behavior, the most important change you can make starts on the inside. It’s about believing in yourself.  It’s about envisioning yourself as the person you want to be, or in the job you’ve always dreamed of having.”