Anna Soo Wildermuth

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Here I'll give you up to date tips on developing your personal and professional image to ensure your first impression will be your best impression. Also I will blog about current image and communication blunders. Feel free to join the discussion by leaving comments, and stay updated by subscribing to the RSS feed. Thanks for visiting my blog. – Anna

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Archive: Appearance

Are you wrinkle free?

We know all cotton fabrics wrinkle. Some, like linen, wrinkle more than others. So, we know when wearing linen our clothing will look wrinkled. However, there is no excuse for wearing wrinkled clothing that got that way because of carelessness in taking of it.

Here are some easy tips for keeping clothing wrinkle free:

• Keep items on an hanger.
• Allow clothing to hang loosely in your closet.
• Buy a wrinkle free fabric spray such as Travel Wrinkle Remover and Fabric Refresher by Austin House.
• Hang clothing in bathroom during a shower. Steam removes wrinkles.

These tips will help you remain at least 80% wrinkle free.

Wrinkled clothing shows lack of polish which is not the image we want to present.

Who has your back?

How many of us ever see our back? Today I rode up an escalator and looked at several backs. This is what I saw:

Pants too tight
Skirts too short
Shirts half tucked in
Worn heels on both men and women
Cracked heels of folks wearing backless shoes
Bra straps showing
Matted hair
Half-dyed heads of hair (mostly around the crown of the head)

To ensure you are not one of these folks, keep the following in mind: Always look behind yourself in a full length mirror. If you don’t have one, consider purchasing one. Or have someone in your household give you a quick look over.

Looking good includes a good looking back.

A picture is worth a 1000 words

Here are some tips:

Do for Women
• Your hairstyle must look current and be your every day style.
• Wear makeup that looks natural.
• If you wear glasses all the time wear them in the picture (be sure they are non-reflective).
• Wear appropriate clothing familiar to the audience.
• Go on the web to see how others in your industry look.

Do for Men
• Wear a touch of cover-stick to mask skin discoloration.
• If you have a mustache or beard make sure it is trimmed neatly.
• Chose clothing that creates the image your audience understands.
• Always wear either a jacket or collared shirt.
• If you wear glasses all the time, wear them in the picture (be sure they are non-reflective).

Don’t
• Choose a new style hairdo for the picture.
• Do a glamour photo.
• Overdo accessories (for example, dangling earrings).
• Wear patterns.

If you can follow these guidelines, the picture will connect you to your audience before you have even met them.

Long skirts verses short skirts

Skirts are back this year in a very big way. Colors and patterns are more fashionable than ever. The question that comes up on a regular basis is how short and how long are considered acceptable?

These are the simple guidelines:

• A short skirt is never more than three inches above the knee. This is the acceptable rule of thumb for business.
• Straight skirts worn for business look best slightly above the knee.
• Use your judgment with straight skirts worn for casual use. Don’t allow your short skirt to be the first thing that is noticed.
• Long skirts for business can cause you to appear matronly unless you look like Catherine Zeta-Jones
• Long skirts are best worn with boots for a smart look.
• Long skirts worn for casual use, especially the flowing ones, look best with sandals.

You will always look smart and fashionable when you wear a skirt according to these guidelines.

Sharing personal health information

Recently, Sara Lee’s CEO disclosed she had a stroke. The controversy is whether Brenda Barnes should have released this information sooner rather than later. We understand she has a commitment to the board of directors, her employees and stock holders because of her high profile status, but what should the average employee disclose?

It is important to be upfront if you have a long term illness especially if you know it will affect your ability to do the required work. But to be on the safe side, you might want to check with your HR department for guidance.

When disclosing personal health issues stick with the facts. Be careful not to put too much of an emotional burden on the person with whom you are sharing the information. Always thank them for their support. When you do this they will usually be more than willing to support you through a difficult time.

Spanx for Men

Sara Blakely’s Spanx began as the new version of a modern control tummy garment for women.They are the updated, modern version of girdles in many different forms. They have been wildly successful in providing products for women in helping them control their figures.

Now, Sara Blakely has designed Spanx for men. They come in two full tee-shirt and tank-top versions (http://www.spanx.com)and are gaining popularity in helping men keep their stomach’s flat In fact, the New York Times Sunday Style section just featured Spanx for men.

If you’re new to these garments, you might want to begin with the cotton compression tank. It’s easier to wear and does not feel so constricting. It will help minimize a slight tummy but it will not take more than two inches off your belt line. It is supposed to help flatten your tummy, improve your posture and support the lower back.

Women have had the advantage of Spanx for awhile, now. So, it’s about time men get to experience them.

Are you temperature sensitive?

Sleeveless tops and Capri pants are some challenges companies face because of the warm weather.

If you wear them, you might think that less clothing on a body will help you stay cooler. However, that’s not true.

The same reasoning goes if it’s cold outside and you want to stay warm. Wearing layers of clothing will not always keep you stay warm, either.

The key to staying cool or warm is fabric. Natural fabrics will help you stay cooler when it’s hot and keep you warm when you layer clothing.

Cotton and linen are great to wear when it is warm. Covering your skin in cotton will help retain moisture and protect you from the sun. The lighter the weave, the cooler it will be on your skin.

Layered heavyweight cotton will keep you warmer than polyester, rayon or viscose.

Cashmere and wool are also great fabrics to wear in the cold climates.

You can manage your temperature sensitivity by being aware of your fabric choices. When you do this you always be in control, no matter what the temperature.

To Button or Not

We often see folks wearing jackets, sweaters and shirts that either should be buttoned or left unbuttoned. In the New York Times Sunday Style section, Bill Cunningham’s May 21st On the Street photos, showed men and women in cardigans, jackets buttoned and unbuttoned.

In the pictures you saw how some individuals buttoned their sweaters and jackets and some left them open. The following are some general guidelines to make sure you appear “fashion aware” instead of sloppy.

For men:

• Three button blazers: Button only the middle button.
• Two button blazers: Button only the top button.
• Double breasted blazers: Keep buttoned when walking but you can unbutton when sitting down.

For sweaters, leave the bottom button open, only button the top button, or do not button at all.

For Women:

• Jackets: Strategically button so that you look slim and smart.
• Sweaters: Whether they are long or short. cardigans, use the same strategy. Button them so you look slim.

Note: If you button all of the buttons on a sweater, always leave one open at the bottom.

When you button the correct number of the buttons on your jacket or sweater, you will look stylish and smart at the same time.

Being a member of the C Suite

What does it take to be a member of the C Suite?

This is a question that comes up quite often. There are number of best sellers on the market that claim they have the secrets. I should know because I probably own most of them!

Here are my top six critical attributes if you aspire to the C Suite:

1. Work smart and hard
2. Know you belong as a member of the C Suite
3. Speak in headlines
4. Look the part (body language, facial expressions and clothing)
5. Understand the audience
6. Manage up
7. Have a good sense of humor
8. Always be ethical
9. Treat famous people like they’re not
10. Treat not famous people like they are

Most importantly, possess the drive and passion for what you do. That element almost alone, will propel you into the C Suite.

Wearing White

Google search came up with About 11,900,000 results to the question: Can you wear white before Memorial Day?

Traditional guidelines suggest one does not wear white before Memorial Day. This means white shoes (exception white gym shoes) slacks, coats, handbags, etc. Tell this to the folks under 40 and the fashion designers.

Today you can wear white before Memorial Day but it really depends where you live and what you’re wearing. White leather shoes designed to look like an athletic shoe but worn as a casual shoe, are being worn year round in warm climates. Other fashion hits this year have been white trench coats, ski jackets and jean jackets

So, now if you want to wear white before Memorial Day, pick a clothing item that makes sense. You never want to be the Fashion victim.

There is one rule, though— never wear white hose unless you are a nurse!